Contact

We’ve just returned from a week away with my extended family (me, Simon and the girls, my parents, my sister, her husband and their two children). There were things about the trip that I was looking forward to – seeing my family of course, catching up with their lives. When we lived in London I saw my sister almost every week but now it’s only every few months. My children adore their older cousins and were very excited. I was looking forward to someone else getting up in the morning to give my children their breakfast! Read More »

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House

What makes us live within our means or push ourselves to our financial limit and even exceed it? I grew up with parents, well my mother in particular, for whom the thought of being in debt was horrifying. They never had much money (enough, but no more) and with that we had a holiday every year, an extended education, music lessons, you get the idea. They even managed to save money and during harder times have helped us out. They think it’s what parents should do. My mother told me that once (yes, just the once) they spent more than they should have at Christmas and went a little overdrawn. It took them the rest of the year to pay it back and they never did it again. For them, the idea that you can walk away from your debt is morally questionable. Read More »

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Bits

I have vague memories of doing one of those tests you take in careers classes which are supposed to tell you what kind of worker you are, you know, Planner, Leader, Finisher etc. (A quick aside: I don’t know what careers classes are like in other countries but in England in the 80′s they were dire. The one thing I was certain of was that my future was in the arts but my careers “advisor” seemed to think my destiny lay in the heady world of the bilingual secretary…). Anyway, the tests, as with all those kinds of things, only allowed you to be one kind of person. I don’t remember what I was but I know for certain I wasn’t a “Finisher”. Read More »

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Nothing

I was watching a documentary recently and the narrator made the, fairly common, statement about some people living somewhere seemingly being happy despite having “nothing”. I seem to hear that comment a lot and yet, for some reason, it really struck me this time. Read More »

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Pink

My four year old daughter told me that I don’t like the stuff she likes. I asked her what she meant. She replied that I won’t let her have all the stuff she sees in the shops that she likes and therefore she thinks I don’t like it. I start off on some rambling explanation about stuff and waste and appreciating things and excess. She gives me a blank look. I try again. This time I go for the “where would we put it all” tack. She doesn’t think being buried under a ton of her own pink, princess crap would be a problem. I agree. If I was four years old I wouldn’t think this was a problem either. Read More »

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